A calm introduction to my trauma‑informed approach and how I support deeper healing. This page offers a clear sense of what therapy with me looks like, how trauma can show up in everyday life, and the ways we can work together at a pace that feels safe and steady.
Trauma‑informed therapy with InnerLight offers specialist support for adults living with the impact of trauma, abuse, neglect, or long‑standing relational patterns. The work is steady, paced, and grounded in depth.
I support adults navigating the effects of trauma, including:
• childhood trauma and neglect
• early attachment wounds
• historic or recent sexual trauma
• domestic or relational abuse
• long‑standing relational patterns such as co‑dependency or narcissistic dynamics
Trauma‑informed therapy follows a phased approach that supports depth while honouring your capacity in the moment. Each phase builds on the last, creating a steady foundation for understanding and change.
We begin by building safety and emotional regulation. You’ll learn personalised ways to manage triggers, soothe distress, and understand your nervous system so you feel more grounded and in control.
When you feel ready, we explore the impact of past experiences. This may include EMDR, relational depth work, or parts‑based approaches — always paced carefully and collaboratively to support integration rather than overwhelm.
As understanding deepens, you begin to recognise patterns, reclaim choice, and build a sense of self rooted in who you are now, not who trauma taught you to be.
If you are currently involved in a police investigation or court process relating to sexual violence, specific boundaries apply to ensure therapy remains safe and does not compromise the legal process.
In these situations, we focus on emotional support, grounding, and stabilisation rather than discussing the details of the incident. A separate Pre‑Trial Therapy Agreement will be provided and discussed before we begin or continue therapy.
I draw on a blend of approaches that support emotional and nervous‑system healing. These are woven together in a way that is collaborative, paced, and responsive to what you need in each session.
Here are some of the approaches we may draw on together:
EMDR helps the brain process overwhelming or unresolved experiences. Using gentle bilateral stimulation, EMDR supports your system in working through memories that still feel “stuck.” This work is paced carefully and grounded in stability.
Many trauma wounds are relational in nature, so the therapeutic relationship becomes part of the repair. We explore patterns, boundaries, and emotional responses within a safe, steady relationship, helping you build new ways of relating to yourself and others.
Parts‑based work recognises that we all carry different “parts” shaped by past experiences — protective parts, younger parts, overwhelmed parts, and parts longing for change. We meet these parts with curiosity and compassion, reducing shame and supporting integration.
These bring a practical, forward‑looking element into the work. We explore clarity, boundaries, emotional regulation, and agency — helping you apply insights in your everyday life at a pace that feels manageable.
Sessions offer a steady, attuned space to explore what you’re carrying at a pace that feels manageable. The work is collaborative and grounded, supporting you to understand yourself with greater clarity and compassion.
You may notice:
Coaching within InnerLight is offered as a trauma‑responsive, future‑focused extension of the therapeutic work. For clients who feel grounded and stable, coaching supports clarity, direction, and meaningful change. Together we explore what matters to you, recognise patterns that may still shape your choices, and develop steady, achievable steps forward.
These short videos offer gentle, accessible explanations of trauma, EMDR, and decision‑making. They’re here if you’d like to explore these themes in a simple, grounded way.
A gentle exploration of how childhood experiences can shape our adult patterns and responses
An introduction to the way EMDR works with the brain’s natural processing system
An exploration of how to make choices that feel grounded and aligned with your values

Trauma often shows up long after the events themselves. You may notice dissociation, anxiety, physical tension, people‑pleasing, mistrust, nightmares, depression, or feeling stuck in cycles you can’t break. These are adaptations your system learned to survive.

You may long for closeness yet feel overwhelmed when someone gets too near. Therapy helps you understand these relational wounds and build trust — both in yourself and in others.

Your child’s behaviour may trigger old wounds, leaving you overwhelmed or unsure how to respond. Therapy supports emotional regulation and connection.

Emotions may feel intense, unpredictable, or out of proportion. Together we explore triggers and develop tools to help you feel more grounded.

Trauma can make connection feel risky. Therapy helps you understand patterns of over‑giving, withdrawing, or struggling to communicate needs.

Trauma can make it difficult to know or hold your limits. We explore boundaries from a place of strength rather than fear.
I offer integrated trauma‑informed therapy for adults, drawing on EMDR, relational therapy, parts work, and future‑focused coaching where appropriate. Each session is tailored to what you need in the moment.
EMDR is woven throughout my therapeutic work and offered when it supports your process. Some people come specifically for EMDR, while others integrate it naturally as part of a broader trauma‑informed journey.
A 30‑minute consultation (£30) to explore what you’re looking for, ask questions, and get a sense of whether we feel like a good fit.
If you are using private health insurance, your session fee is agreed directly with your insurer. Fees for insurer‑funded therapy differ from standard private‑pay rates due to the additional administration, reporting, and liaison required.
Your insurer will confirm the number of sessions approved, the fee they will cover, and any reporting requirements. Once authorisation is in place, sessions can be invoiced directly to your insurer.
For clients using private health insurance, please see the dedicated page for details on authorisation and fees.
Sessions are offered online or in person. A limited number of reduced‑fee spaces may be available depending on capacity.
If you feel ready to begin this work, you’re welcome to get in touch. I offer a steady, attuned space where you can explore your experiences at a pace that feels manageable and respectful of your story, with room for clarity, grounding, and change to unfold in their own time.
