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Trauma-Informed Therapy

A calm, thoughtful space to explore the impact of trauma and difficult experiences, understand yourself more deeply, and discover what may be helpful for you. 


This page offers an introduction to how I work with trauma, what trauma can look like in everyday life, and the different ways we might explore your experiences together. There is no prescribed route — we work at a pace that respects where you are and what feels manageable. 


My Approach

Trauma-informed work begins with understanding that our experiences can shape the ways we feel, think, relate and respond to the world around us.

At InnerLight, we can explore the impact of experiences such as:

  • childhood trauma or neglect
  • early attachment experiences and difficulties
  • childhood or adult sexual abuse
  • difficult or abusive relationships
  • recurring relationship patterns, including co-dependency or difficult relational dynamics

These experiences don't always announce themselves as “trauma”. Sometimes they show up through anxiety, emotional overwhelm, difficulties in relationships, feeling disconnected from yourself, repeating patterns, or simply a sense that something isn't quite making sense.

We can begin wherever you are, without needing to have everything worked out beforehand.


How Trauma‑Informed Therapy Works

How we might work together

Trauma work can take different forms, and there is no fixed sequence that everyone needs to follow. For some people, it is important to begin by developing a greater sense of safety and stability. For others, understanding patterns or relationships may be the natural starting point.

As the work develops, we can draw on different approaches where they feel relevant. The pace is guided by your capacity and by what feels useful, rather than by a predetermined timetable.

Safety & Stabilisation

We may begin by developing ways of understanding and responding to what happens when you feel overwhelmed, activated or shut down. This can include exploring triggers, emotional responses and nervous-system patterns, and finding approaches that help you feel more grounded. 

Exploration & Processing

When it feels appropriate, we can explore experiences that may still be affecting you in the present. This might include EMDR, relational exploration or parts-based work. We take care not to move faster than feels manageable. 

Integration & Moving Forward

As you develop a deeper understanding of yourself and your patterns, there may be opportunities to make different choices in the present, recognise what belongs to the past, and develop a stronger sense of what feels right for you now. 


If InnerLight feels right for you

You’re welcome to get in touch to make an enquiry or find out more. 

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Approaches I Integrate

I draw on a range of therapeutic approaches, bringing them together according to what feels relevant to the person and the work we are doing. You don't need to arrive knowing which approach you need — we can explore that together. 

EMDR- Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing

EMDR can be used to help process experiences that continue to feel emotionally or physically present. Through bilateral stimulation and careful pacing, we can explore memories and experiences that may still be affecting the present. 

Relational Therapy

Our relationships can shape the ways we understand ourselves and others. Relational work gives us an opportunity to explore patterns, boundaries, expectations and emotional responses, including what emerges within the therapeutic relationship itself. 

Parts‑based work

Parts-based work offers a way of becoming curious about the different responses, feelings and perspectives we can carry within us. We might explore protective parts, younger or more vulnerable parts, or parts that seem to want different things.

Rather than judging or trying to get rid of these responses, we can become curious about what they may be trying to communicate or protect.


What You Can Expect

Sessions offer a steady, thoughtful space to explore what is happening for you. We can slow things down, become curious about patterns and responses, and make space for experiences that may have been difficult to understand or put into words.

You may begin to notice:

  • a greater understanding of your emotional world
  • more awareness of your own patterns and responses
  • a clearer sense of how past experiences connect with the present
  • greater awareness of your choices and boundaries
  • a different or more compassionate relationship with yourself


Learn More

If you'd like to explore some of the ideas behind this work, I've included three short videos below. They offer gentle introductions to childhood experiences, EMDR and making decisions that feel more aligned with who you are. 


Understanding Childhood Experiences

A gentle exploration of how childhood experiences can shape our adult patterns and responses


EMDR &Trauma Processing

An introduction to the way EMDR works with the brain’s natural processing system


Making Aligned Decisions

An exploration of how to make choices that feel grounded and aligned with your values


How Trauma Can Show Up in Everyday Life

Trauma doesn't always feel like a memory of something that happened in the past. Sometimes its effects show up in the ways we relate, respond, protect ourselves or understand who we are.


You may recognise some of these experiences, while others may not fit at all. There is no single way trauma shows up, and these responses can have many different roots.


How past Trauma can present now

Symptoms & Responses

Symptoms & Responses

Symptoms & Responses

The effects of difficult experiences can sometimes continue long after the events themselves. You might experience anxiety, dissociation, nightmares, physical tension, low mood, difficulty sleeping, feeling constantly on alert, or a sense of being stuck in patterns you don't understand.

These responses often developed for a reason. Rather than seeing them simply as problems to get rid of, we can become curious about what they may be telling you.

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Relationships

Symptoms & Responses

Symptoms & Responses

Relationships can bring some of our deepest patterns to the surface. You may long for closeness but find intimacy difficult, become anxious about rejection, struggle to trust, or feel overwhelmed when someone gets too close.

We can explore how your experiences may have shaped the way you relate to yourself and others, and begin to understand patterns that may have once helped you feel safe.

Attachment Theory

Sense of SelF

Symptoms & Responses

Emotional Regulation

Our experiences can influence the way we see ourselves. You might struggle with self-worth, feel disconnected from who you are, find it difficult to know what you want, or spend a great deal of time adapting yourself to other people's needs.

Sometimes it can be difficult to know which parts of yourself feel genuinely yours and which have developed in response to relationships or experiences along the way.

Emotional Regulation

Friendships & Connection

Emotional Regulation

Sometimes emotions can feel overwhelming, difficult to understand, or surprisingly intense. At other times, you may feel very little at all — numb, disconnected or shut down.

We can become curious about what happens when emotions arise, what may trigger particular responses, and what helps you feel more able to stay with what you're experiencing.

Grounding Techniques

Friendships & Connection

Friendships & Connection

Friendships & Connection

Connection can feel complicated when you've learned that being close to others isn't always safe or predictable. You may find yourself over-giving, withdrawing, avoiding conflict, struggling to ask for what you need, or feeling unsure where you stand with people.

Exploring these patterns can create space to understand what happens in your relationships and what you might want to do differently.

Boundaries

Friendships & Connection

Friendships & Connection

Knowing what you need and being able to communicate it isn't always easy. You may find yourself saying yes when you mean no, taking responsibility for other people's feelings, keeping the peace at your own expense, or feeling guilty when you try to put a limit in place.

We can explore what boundaries mean for you, where some of your patterns may have come from, and what it might feel like to make choices that are more aligned with your own needs.

Understanding Boundaries

Therapeutic Services & Fees

Therapeutic Services

I offer one-to-one, trauma-informed therapy for adults, drawing on EMDR, relational therapy and parts-based work where these approaches feel relevant to what you are experiencing.


Sessions are tailored to the individual rather than following a fixed formula. We can explore what brings you to InnerLight and allow the work to develop from there.

EMDR Within an Integrated Approach

EMDR can be offered as part of a wider therapeutic process, or as a more focused approach where that feels appropriate.


Some people come to InnerLight specifically because they are interested in EMDR. For others, it becomes one part of a broader exploration of trauma, relationships, patterns and their impact on the present.

The Work May Include

Depending on what feels relevant, our work may include:

  • exploring the impact of trauma and difficult experiences
  • EMDR
  • relational and parts-based work
  • understanding patterns, emotions and responses
  • psychoeducation where it is useful
  • grounding and regulation approaches
  • exploring relationships, boundaries and choices in the present

We don't need to decide in advance which of these you will use. They are resources I can draw upon as the work develops.

Initial Consultation

An initial 30-minute consultation is available for £30. This gives us an opportunity to talk about what brings you to InnerLight, discuss any questions you may have, and consider whether the work I offer is appropriate for what you are looking for. 

Fees

Therapy — 60 minutes: £60


Sessions may draw on EMDR, relational therapy, parts-based work and other therapeutic approaches according to what is relevant to your work together.  

Insurance‑Funded Therapy

 If you are accessing therapy through private health insurance, fees and arrangements are agreed with your insurer. Insurer-funded therapy can differ from standard private-pay sessions because of additional administration, reporting and liaison requirements.


Your insurer will confirm the number of sessions authorised, the fee they will cover and any reporting requirements. Once authorisation is in place, sessions can be invoiced directly to your insurer where applicable.

Learn more about insurance-funded therapy

For clients using private health insurance, please see the dedicated page for details on authorisation and fees.

Availability

 Sessions are available online or in person in Wincanton.

A limited number of reduced-fee spaces may be available depending on capacity.


If InnerLight feels right for you

You’re welcome to get in touch to make an enquiry or find out more.

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